About Me: Cindy Ng X.Y
Profile: A lady residing at the western side of Singapore. This happens to be a place where I can freely express myself and talk about the happenings in my life. Sorry if it's boring! :P
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Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself.
- Harvey Fierstein

Wishing all my readers a very Happy New Year :)

Okays yesterday went to meet Rx, Jane & Bee after work. Didnt know that 3 of their guy friends were there too.
Then the 7 of us went to have dinner and went Singapore Flyer to watch fireworks. :D

Waited until 12. The fireworks are so pretty! Makes me feel like I'm a kid all over again, cause when I was young I went to watch fireworks once and I was so amazed by it.
LOL. After that went home lor, but the mrt station is soooooooooo damn crowded.
So we waited for awhile at Raffles City de open space there.

Then went home. :)

This is my first time counting down with friends lor.
For the past 18 years of my life I been counting down alone at home -.-

LOL!

Also wanna wish my friends a happy new year!
Wish that Rx & Bee will find their Mr Right soon, & Jane will have a good & lasting relationship with her bf.
I love you all! :D

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OKAY. I have some new year resolutions I've made & I want to try to keep.

1. Lose weight. (this have been my NYR since dunno how many years ago -.-)
2. Be nice to everybody even when I dont like them.
3. Spend money wisely.
4. Work on my punctuality.
5. Shut my mouth when not needed.

I think I need to empasize on point no.5

I'm a very straightforward person & somehow sometimes I talk, people listen liao then bu shuang. People always want to hear nice things, but when you tell them bad things about themselves, they not happy about it. Instead of working on it.
I'm not those type of keep quiet ones, then everything is go with the flow.
I mean when you dont like/agree with something, you have to say it out right??? So sometimes when I do that, people bu shuang also. They think I'm disagreeable.
People who always say 'anything' when asked, whether they really like it or not, are less likely to offend people. Should I say that is good or bad?

I dont stupidly follow other people, I have a mind of my own please.
Of course I am not THAT straightforward to the point I will say "You look very ugly in that." or "Wah!!!! You damn smelly leh!" or whatever hurting things you can think of.
I'm only straightforward when I think something is not right, or when I disagree with something. Since I've said I am not the 'anything' type.
At least I am honest & I dont keep feelings to myself. I dont say things like "ok lor... I anything de, lets go." & secretly at the back of my head I am thinking "zzzz.. wah why they all want to go there??? I dun wan leh...."
Get what I mean?
Why suffer in silence just to not offend others?
You may say I like to 'shoot' people with my words. But come on! I'm only saying what you are secretly thinking too, but dont dare to say out.

It's so hard to please anyone, seriously.

From the year 2009 onwards, I'll just shut up when not needed. I'll keep my opinions to myself.
I will say 'anything' when asked. Even if I dont like it.
This way, I wont offend anybody le.
& I wont be myself anymore.

People get me wrong all the time, it's very hurting you know?

Oh no, you dont.

Whatever.

Today is my youngest sis birthday.
Happy Birthday Nicole! :)

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