About Me: Cindy Ng X.Y
Profile: A lady residing at the western side of Singapore. This happens to be a place where I can freely express myself and talk about the happenings in my life. Sorry if it's boring! :P
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Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself.
- Harvey Fierstein

I know it's kinda late to do this,
but I still want to cause I feel like it.

My feelings and thoughts for year 2009.

LOVE:
Failed relationships, a couple of broken hearts, tears and deception.
I've trusted the wrong people cause I was too naive.
All these made me into a smarter person, not to trust people easily.

FRIENDS:
More outings with girlfriends, that's one thing I like about 2009.
We've been friends since 2006, met each other from Simei ITE. From a group of 10 girls,
we are down to 4. Which is the 4 of us. Friends come and go - this I agree.
I really hope the 4 of us can still be very good friends who meet up regulary after we are married, after we have our kids, and even when we are old and wrinkled. Hahahaha...

FAMILY:
Family wise I'm pretty alright, shifted into a new house during August,
and we are settling in very well. Sister achieved good results for PSLE,
mom is earning enough for the 3 of us to live comfortably.

WORK:
I like my job but I dont like the people working there. Especially the one I'm under.
I really dont like it when people claimed themselves as oh-so-holy, but deep down,
they don't practice what they preach and do things differently from what they said.
Not that I am against this specific religion, but SOME of them are really too fake.
Enough said.

MET SOMEONE SPECIAL:
I think the best thing which happen in 2009 is when I met my current boyfriend,
which is around August. And we got together on September 09.
I learnt that love is not about looks, height, money or anything else. Looks and fortune doesnt last forever,
only a heart who is true and sincere to you will. And I dont need a guy who is super handsome.
Plus I am not very good looking either. I dont care about other people's comments or gossips.
Cause all these people doesnt matter to me. They can say all they want.. I dont care.
Anyway to me, he is better than Jay Chou or Wu Zhun. Hahahahaha....

I used to think that having lots of friends = happy.
But how many of them are really your friends? How many will really understand you?
Will they be there for you when you needed them the most?

After I met him, my thinking started to change.
I dont mind living only around him, my 4 lovely girlfriends and my family. Because they are the ones who really care, and they are those who REALLY matter to me.

I can really tell that our feelings are real for each other, helping each other to be a better person,
accepting each other's flaws, give and take without any complains, constantly doing things to keep the love alive,
I believe it's fate that we met each other. And though we are only together for 4 months,
I'm sure that we'll be together for a very very long time.....

2010 will be a better year :)
I am looking forward to celebrating Valentine's day, Chinese New Year, his birthday,
my birthday, Christmas and lastly, growing together with him.

A big thank you to those around me, those whom I met, those who hurt me,
and to my supporting boyfriend who is the most special in my heart. ♥

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